Frequently Asked Questions

The length of mediation varies depending on the complexity of your situation and how prepared both parties are. Most mediations are completed in 2-6 sessions, typically spanning 1-3 months. Simple cases with few assets and no children may be resolved in just a few sessions, while more complex situations involving significant assets, business interests, or custody arrangements may take longer. This is still significantly faster than traditional litigation, which can take a year or more (California law requires a minimum six-month waiting period before a divorce can be finalized).

For your first session, bring any relevant financial documents including recent tax returns, pay stubs, bank statements, retirement account statements, mortgage documents, and a list of assets and debts. If children are involved, bring information about their schedules, activities, and any existing custody arrangements. Having this information ready helps make the process more efficient. We’ll provide a detailed checklist during your initial consultation.

While you don’t need a lawyer to participate in mediation, we recommend that each party have their agreement reviewed by an independent attorney before signing. This ensures you fully understand your rights and the implications of the agreement. Some clients choose to consult with an attorney throughout the process, while others only seek legal review at the end. The choice is yours, and we can provide referrals to family law attorneys if needed.

Most couples spend $15,000-$50,000 for a litigated divorce. Mediation is typically 50-70% less expensive than traditional litigation. Our fees are based on an hourly rate or flat fee, and the total cost depends on the complexity of your case and how many sessions are needed. We offer a free initial consultation and provide a cost estimate based on your specific situation.

We offer flexible payment options to make mediation accessible. Payment is typically split between both parties, though arrangements can be made based on your situation. We accept credit cards, checks, and bank transfers. Payment plans are available for those who need them. During your consultation, we’ll discuss payment arrangements that work for your circumstances.

Yes, mediation is completely confidential. Everything discussed during mediation sessions is protected and cannot be used in court if mediation is unsuccessful. This confidentiality encourages open, honest communication and allows both parties to explore options without fear that their words will be used against them later. The only exceptions are situations involving child abuse, threats of harm, or other legally mandated reporting requirements.

If you’re unable to reach agreement on all issues, you still have options. Many couples successfully resolve most issues through mediation and only need court intervention for one or two remaining disputes. You can also take a break and return to mediation later, or proceed to litigation for unresolved matters. The progress made in mediation is never wasted. It often clarifies issues and reduces the scope of any future legal proceedings.

Children’s well-being is always a top priority in mediation. We help parents focus on creating parenting plans that serve their children’s best interests, including custody arrangements, visitation schedules, and decision-making responsibilities. Unlike adversarial court proceedings, mediation encourages cooperative co-parenting and helps maintain healthy family relationships. Children are not present during sessions, but their needs and perspectives are central to all discussions.